Heinrichs Pg. 79-133

I know that this post is late however I can explain why...very long weekend.

I understand that it is ok to have disagreements this is apart of life, but when a whole group of people have a huge disagreement that could end relationships, it becomes a huge dilemma of who's right or wrong.

This past weekend was a great example of this when my boyfriend and group of best friends(we have all known each other since 7th grade) got into an argument because of me. Neither side could control their volume therefore their voices escalated and with that anger arisen because people didn't have self-control of their emotions. I felt really bad because I really didn't take a stance at the beginning of the argument which made me seem both nonchalant and uncaring towards my best friends' feelings when all I wanted to do was stay out of the cross fire. But what happens when you try to persuade to both sides that they are all wrong, their arguments are irrelevant, and only one side is persuaded and the other one not? I think that you may have lost some very close friends, or at least that what happened to me.